First Date Ideas And Tips, Dating Locations, Dating Information

Of course, the objective of a first date is to see if there will be a second. Allow time for that, but not too much time, in case the date's a bust. And for now, focus on the present. Here are some great ideas for first-date outings.

1. Some prefer an activity. Hitting golf balls, playing miniature golf, or strolling around a large shopping mall, with its variety of activities -- restaurants, drop-in eateries, places to sit and talk or to listen to live music, or even window shopping -- will fill the time.

2. Group events will show how your date interacts with others. Picnics rank high; they're casual. If the date gets boring, go kick a soccer ball.

3. Local events such as street fairs, festivals, and concerts-in-the-park are often free and will keep you busy. County fairs teem with activities. Guys, be aware -- she may ask you to swing the hammer and ring the bell. Added plus: corn dogs and cotton candy.

4. A casual dinner in a fun, relaxed environment can be intense if the only distractions are the menu and the quality of food and service. The music must be low enough so you can hear each other. Watch how she treats the restaurant staff, and check out her table manners.

5. Certain sporting events are good icebreakers, especially baseball games. You can talk and sing without disrupting others. Games last up to three hours, but you can leave anytime. Bonuses: hot dogs, Cracker Jacks -- and you might see an interesting game.

Football games aren't so hot since the guy might try to explain every play. Auto races aren't good because you can't hear. Professional golf matches are so-so; you get exercise, but have to be quiet when golfers address the ball.

6. Enjoy a walk together (if trust has been established or if a mutual friend has vouched for her character) around the lake, on the beach, in the harbor, in the park, or at any popular walking sites in your city.

7. Some try dancing, when both people know how. It allows closeness and touching without being suggestive. And, you'll get exercise!

8. Movies or the theater are limiting. Biggest drawback: no talking during performances; you won't learn much about your date.

If you're meeting a stranger, your date options are limited. Put safety first. Drive your own car. Meet in a well-lighted, public place where people are present. Keep the date simple -- coffee or a light meal.

Tell friends where you'll be and who you'll be with or ask the coffee house manager to keep an eye on you, explaining that you'll be with a stranger. Trust your instincts. Even if you feel comfortable, don't accept a lift to your car.

In all circumstances, have fun and get to know each other. And, if all goes well, the door's open for a second date!

Last Minute First Date Idea's

	Dinner/Movie
	Take a walk
	Lunch
	Meet for coffee
	Sporting event
	Playing a sport
	Dancing
	Concert
	Park
	Window shopping
	Play pool
	Casino
	Casual sight seeing
	Jazz club
	Piano bar
	Play in the park
	Breakfast
	Romantic patio
	Fair
	Street dance

If you really want to make an impression, put some extra thought into your first date and get creative

	Picnic in a parking lot on the tailgate of your truck or van
	Go to the the local marina and have a bite to eat and stroll on the docks
	A little trick that really works for a second date. Listen to her as she talks. Say for instance she says she likes men in tool belts as a joke. Go buy a tool belt, and plant flowers in the pouches and give it to her. Say she says she likes going to the beach. Get a flat tray, about 3 inches deep, add some sand, two small Barbie beach chairs and some some blowers. She will be completely intrigued.

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