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Does the G spot exist?

Experts still have to agree on whether the G-spot actually exists or not. Some say it does, some say it doesn’t. Fact is, Grafenberg has never published any evidence to support his claim and other experts have simply assumed that he knew what he was talking about. 

This goes to further prove that no two human beings are built exactly the same. The pleasure one woman feels from having a penis rub over her G-spot, is not necessarily felt by other women. Unfortunately, the myth of the G-spot is firmly entrenched in the pop culture of our times and many women and men have experienced frustration at their failure to find the spot in question. As the studies mentioned above have shown, not all women are born with a high enough sensitivity in that part of the vaginal wall, while still others have no special sensitivity in the G-spot at all.

The G-spot has been regarded as a sort of magic button that would allow any woman to reach orgasm through vaginal stimulation. This is what led at least one of America ’s leading sex therapists to suspect that Doctor Grafenberg might have been influenced by Sigmund Freud’s belief that orgasms not obtained from regular sexual intercourse are not mature. However, there is no way of knowing what evidence prompted Grafenberg to announce the existence of the sensitive area that still bears his name.

The bottom line is that women who can’t find this famous spot behind their pubic bones, should not despair. It simply means that that particular area is not highly sensitive, which is no big loss. The clitoris is enough for a lifetime of orgasms and you don’t have to look for it. On the other hand, if you are one of the women who has a G-spot, then kudos to you. You have a way of making intercourse even more pleasurable and you’re not likely to get bored in bed if the guy knows his way around G-spot stimulation

How to find the G-spot?  

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And now let’s get to the practical part of the discussion around the G-spot. I’m sure that you are eager to get right down to it and find that little bugger. Some men see this as a challenge and as something of a duty. It’s their duty to give their ladies the best possible orgasms and that includes a direct hit on the G-spot during each sex session. Stimulation of the G-Spot has also been heavily used by books on sex issues as a bonus for happy couples and a true miracle for men who fail to please their ladies.

If you’re looking for the G-spot, you should know that this famous spot is the small area behind the pubic bone and surrounding the urethra. In some women, this little area is highly sensitive and the source of much sexual pleasure as the penis going inside the vagina rubs against the G-spot. In order to stimulate the G-Spot, men should position their penis for a thrust that is opposite to clitoris stimulation. A penis that curves upward has the natural ability to strike the vagina wall in the area around the G-Spot, while men with downward curvatures may want to try the doggy style.

The G-Spot can also be stimulated using the finger or tongue. It would require a 1 to 3-inch penetration of the vagina. No exact distance can be given since it varies from one woman to another. Experts found that changes in tissue structure occurring beyond the age of 30 make the G-Spot easier to reach. This is why some women in their thirties believe they are experiencing their sexual peak. The fingers are your best bet anytime, but there are also specially designed vibrators that can be used for stimulation. However, it is preferable to find the G-spot first with your fingers and then start poking around with the vibrator.

One of the things you want to look out for is your lady’s reaction. As you get closer to the spot, she might instinctively pull back to avoid the direct stimulation of that sensitive spot. This could get you off the course and searching in the wrong area. So keep an eye on her movements. You also want to begin the search after your partner has been properly aroused. You could even wait until she had an orgasm and take it from there. The more aroused the woman, the more likely she is to feel the difference in sensation between the G-spot and the rest of the vaginal wall. Apply firm pressure and watch your lady’s reactions. She will guide you to the target.

And lastly, don’t be depressed if you could not find it on the first try. Just think that you get more than one chance to finger your lady at will. Work on it and you will discover the G-spot sooner or later. On the other hand, if your lady simply lacks the higher sensitivity in that particular area then that’s that. Don’t despair; there are other ways of dealing with the situation. You can always rely on the clitoris, the only organ dedicated exclusively to sexual pleasure, to get your lady over the edge and put a smile on her face.

Good positions for G-spot stimulation  

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Now that you’ve learnt nearly everything about the G-spot, it’s time to put the theory aside and get to the practice part. And the practice part means the sexual positions that let the man rub his penis against the G-spot and send shivers up the woman’s spine. These aren’t special positions or some sort of arcane secrets. It’s just that the angle of insertion offered by them is far more suited for G-spot stimulation.

Before we start there is one this I’d like to mention. The biggest secret regarding the G-spot is the fact that it doesn’t work unless the woman is properly aroused. Just like the clitoris, the G-spot is dependent on strong arousal and the increased blood flow to the pelvic area. You can’t just go for the G-spot, or for the clitoris for the matter, straight away. You need to get the woman hot and ready to go, otherwise your effort is wasted.

The first position we’re going to discuss is the classic woman-on-top position. Ladies love this position because it lets them guide the penis to all those sensitive spots that need rubbing and that men have no idea about. And the G-spot is no different. Guys, if the lady wants to take control to give herself a lot of pleasure, let her do it because she knows better than you how to reach that little magic spot. Just lie back and enjoy the view, which is apt to be highly arousing. It works even better if you’re sitting in a chair and the lady is straddling you.

The second position is the popular doggy style. You know, the lady goes on all fours, raising her incredibly sexy bottom in the air and this is where you come in. Get your lady to guide you if you can’t find the right spot. Better yet, go in and then let her do all the moving until you understand exactly what she wants of you. The best idea is not to stand up straight, but to put your weight forward so that your penis points downward. This way, your penis will press harder upon the right vagina wall. You could also try this with both of you lying on your sides.

And another great way of stimulating the G-spot is to have your lady lying on her back at the edge of the bed. Grab her legs and put them on your shoulders and then start making love to her. For better stimulation, your partner should keep her legs wide apart. This position works just as well if you use a chair, a sofa or a table, just make sure that your penis points upward and rubs against the front vagina wall. Another great thing about this position is the fact that you two are face to face and the lady’s reactions are easy to read. You’ll know for sure if she’s enjoying it or not.

You could also put a couple of pillows underneath the lady’s back in order to keep her body propped at a 15 degrees angle. This will let you take advantage of the woman’s anatomy to hit the bull’s eye. Don’t go for deep penetration on this one, because the G-spot is located close to the entrance. Use instead shallow and rapid thrusts, if your lady is comfortable with them.

So there you have them, all the things you need to know to have a lot of fun in bed. Hitting the G-spot and having your lady squirm about the bed in ecstasy is the best way to put a satisfied smile on her face. Try them all out and see which one you like best. Anyway, you’re bound to have a lot of fun with them.

Is there a male G-spot?

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Many people have absolutely no idea, but there is something inside every man’s body that can be seen as a counterpart of the famous G-spot. This magic something is the prostate. Before any man starts cringing at the thought of something inserted into the rectum in order to reach the prostate, let me tell you the facts about prostate stimulation and the wonderful orgasms that can be had. I know that most men are not comfortable with somebody pleasing them through the anus because it makes them question their own sexual orientation, but, guys, this is not about being straight or gay.

It took a long time for humanity to come to terms with oral and anal sex. Nowadays oral sex is pretty mandatory, while anal sex is the cherished dream of many men. However, one look around is enough to understand that the very men eager to penetrate the anus of their wives and girlfriends refuse to even consider a similar move on themselves. Which is strange. Why should you pass up the wonderful experience of a thundering orgasm every time you have sex just because it looks gay? Especially since the act is not even gay. It’s about your woman or yourself stimulating your prostate with a finger or a toy.

Prostate stimulation is not a modern idea, but goes back to the beginning of last century. It was well-known at the time that a gentle massage of the prostate can lead to huge orgasms for men and smart wives used special steel devices to help their husbands enjoy themselves. However, a well lubricated finger is just as good for this purpose, more so since a woman’s fingers are thinner and shorter than a man’s, which should put some fears to rest. Unlike the G-spot, the prostate is far easier to find and to stimulate, although care should be exercised during stimulation since the area is highly sensitive.

Some men do not find prostate massage stimulating unless they are fully aroused and ready for sex. Others, however, claim that the massage is very arousing and helps them achieve bigger than usual erections. And yet another category of men say that prostate massage alone is enough to get them over the edge and into a wonderful orgasm. If you are not part of the latter category, then you could always try to supplement the pleasure by having your lady please you orally while playing with your prostate.

If you find it hard to accept the idea of having a finger in your rectum, you should think about it as something new that you can try once. If the prostate massage doesn’t feel great, mark this as a failed attempt and move on. If, on the other hand, you get a kick out of it and discover that there so much more to sex than penetration, then you’re a winner. A whole new world of pleasure is yours.  

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