For
the less confident
Show a bit of leg
You can initiate sex without having to say a word. Put on your best
G-string, suspenders and stockings and you want have to do a
thing. He will be jumping on you before you can whisper his name.
Romance him
Cook him his favourite meal, light some candles, turn out the light
and play your favourite songs. He won`t need to ask what's for
dessert.
Massage him
Take the oils to bed and wait until he is relaxed and tell him you
will give him a massage if he returns the favour. Rub the oil into
the palm of your hands to warm it up the gently massage his back
and shoulders working your way down his back to his buttocks and
firmly squeeze them working your fingers through his legs and down
his thighs but don't touch his penis. Then whisper in his ear that
you want him to do the same to you. Don't bank on your massage
getting finished.
Playing games
Playing games is a
good way to initiate sex whether you are confident or not.
For the more
confident
Phone sex
Phone him up at work and tell him what you want him to do to you
and what you want you want to do to you. If you are at home you
could get yourself aroused masturbating while you tell him what
you are doing to yourself. The chances are he won`t be able to
respond to you so will be wetting his trousers with excitement.
This is the ultimate turn on for any man and will get him through
even the hardest work day. He will be racing home to give you a
helping hand.
Write him a few words
Write him a short note telling him what you are going to do to him
when he gets home, tell him what you will be wearing, what you
want him to do to you, in explicit detail. Put the note in his
brief case, lunch box he won`t be able to resist going to the
toilet to read it in private.
Dressing up
Buy some sexy new lingerie, a maids outfit, dress as a school girl
take the lead and ad some spice this will not only make you feel
more confident and sexy but it will make your partner look at you
through different eyes.
Play time
Time
to invest in some sexy toys. Buy a vibrator and leave it on your
bed in a gift wrapped box with a bow round it and tell him to go
to bed and you will follow him up. Hopefully by the time you get
in he will be wearing nothing but a big smile waving the vibrator.
Buy some hand cuffs and you go to bed first. Cuff yourself to the
bed and lie naked waiting for him to come in this will turn him on
to the point where it will be hard for home to contain himself. To
soften the room and hide the parts of your body you don't want him
to see light some tea candles
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