It
is great to have a long term relationship
even if this is very difficult to sustain. It supposes a lot of
sacrifices from both partners. Maybe you have met a wonderful
girl a long time ago and you still have a relationship with
her because you were able to make all the sacrifices and changes
that needed, to make this work. But have you ever wondered if she is
the right girl for you?
Many
couples after years of relationship break
up because they find out that they are not compatible. Worst,
sometimes couples that are married get divorce because they are not
suitable with each other and didn't realize this earlier. So, if you
are in a relationship right now stop for a second and analyze your
relationship, your girlfriend and see if this is what you
really want and if she is the right girl for you, until it's not too
late.
Even if your
relationship works well, you have to think if she is the
right girl for you, the one with whom you want to spend all your
life. How do you if she is the right one?
Here are some things that might help you:
- makes you feel more happy, makes you smile more, help you every
time you needed, it is a person you can trust on, someone you see
you can have a future with
-she is focused on you, you are definitely not on the second place
in her life
-she loves you, you can see this from her attitude; observe the way
she looks at you and treats you everyday, how she speaks with you,
if she is glad when you are making a surprise to her; she has to
love you for who you are and not for who you try to be
-eye contact it is also very important, so watch out because if she
doesn't have the courage to look directly in your eyes when you talk
with her, something is wrong there; she might hiding something and
then she is not the right girl for you
-she has to be smart, intelligent; this is a kind of woman who wont
let you get bored, because will constantly surprise you; also it is
nice to have someone with whom you can talk about everything
-it is very important to be sexually compatible with you; this means
that has to exist that undeniable attraction between you two, and
you are able to communicate your desires verbally; you have to
please each other in the bedroom
-she has to have patience in your relationship;
so test her; if she asks you to take her out to dinner tell her that
now it is not possible because you don't have money so she has to
wait until the salary day; see how she is reacting; if she
understands you means that she loves you, if not and gets angry
means that she stay with you only for your money so you better get
rid of her
-is she beautiful? This doesn't mean that she has to be miss beauty,
just someone who wants to look good for you and for herself, try
always to look her best, someone who you can be proud to be with; if
she has just some beautiful parts that you like, this is ok
-she likes you the way you are; she doesn't try to control you,
doesn't insist to give up your nights out with guys; she allows you
to be yourself; she may suggest you a new sweater, but she is not
critical on every aspect of the way you live
-she respects you; this means that she would never cause scenes in
public in front of your family and
friends and wait to discuss matters with you in private; also
she is able to listen your opinion even if she doesn't agree with
what you say
-she is willing to do sacrifices for you; she is willing to move
your furniture if it has too, wants to meet your friends, and she is
wiling to try new things that you ask her even if she never do that
again
-she has to have her own personality and opinions; to be able to
enjoy time away from you, while
still missing you; an independent woman is all you need
-she is able to make efforts for you, to get along with the most
important people from your life: like your mom, dad, brothers,
sisters and also friends
-you like the way she handles things; you like the way she sees the
world, how she thinks, and her thoughts actually interest you
-she is friendly, respectfully, exactly how you like; you like the
way she treats other people, is kind with strangers, animals
Now, all you have to do is to think if your girlfriend meets some of
these requirements and to decide if she is the right girl for you.
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