What Does it Mean to be 'Lesbian'

Women usually describe themselves as homosexual, or 'lesbian', when they find that they are physically, emotionally and sexually attracted to other women.

It is not uncommon for women to have had experiences and feelings with other women as part of exploring their sexuality. However, for women who go on to identify as lesbian, there is a usually a strong physical and emotional attraction to women that they don't usually feel for men.

There are lesbians in every culture and in every country. Remember, there is nothing 'wrong' with feeling, or being lesbian. It is just a form of sexuality that unfortunately, some people find hard to understand. 

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Why are Some Women Lesbians?

There is no real explanation of why some women are lesbian, and some are not. It may be a result of genetic influences or because of social experiences or an interaction of the two. Some people recognise their attractions at an early age while others don't develop attractions until they are well into adulthood. For most young people, however, they begin to develop feelings and attractions to other women during teenage years. The main thing to remember is that being gay is not a disease to be 'cured' or 'fixed'. It is part of the broad spectrum of human sexuality. 

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How Do I Know if I'm Lesbian?

There is no easy answer to this question. You can't fill in a questionnaire or do a test that will give you a definite answer. What is important is you explore your feelings and attractions in your own time, and at a pace that makes you feel safe and comfortable. It is also important to remember you don't have to deal with your questions or problems by yourself. Try talking to one of the confidential services listed below if you are feeling concerned.

How Do I Know if Someone Else is a Lesbian?

You have probably met lesbians without even knowing it. Basically, you won't know until someone tells you. Lesbian women come in all shapes and sizes. It is important to remember that if you identify as lesbian, how you look is up to you, just the same as if you are heterosexual. How you dress and how you behave is about your personal identity, not a stereotype.

That’s okay. Most straight people know that they are attracted to the opposite sex before they ever actually have sex. There’s no need to rush to have sex to “find out” if you’re a lesbian or not. Do what feels natural to you. 

What percentage of the population is lesbian?

A statistic like that is hard to figure out. There’s no census form that counts gay and lesbian people. And even if there were, people have good reason to keep things like that under wraps. Even though we’ve made some strides in the last decade, in most states it is still legal to fire someone because they are gay or lesbian. 

A study of human sexuality in the 1950s determined that most people have some degree of attraction to both sexes. The generally accepted figure is that ten percent of the population is gay or lesbian. 

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Lesbian Relationships

In many respects they are not different from heterosexual relationships. Like everyone else, lesbian women fall in love and form committed relationships. Within these relationships there are both good times and bad. There are no rules that lesbian relationships follow - everyone is free to make them up for themselves and how a relationship will end up depends on how the two people feel about each other not their sexual orientation.

Finally the one key ingredient to any relationship is love. True love is the one gift we are all entitled to. Love your partner. Be kind, support each other and above all be true to your heart and your partner.

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